Respect??

what is respect???? because they elder so we must respect them??? there is a saying say that "we  must learn to respect others before want people to respect us".

is it call us younger generation to go here go there like ah sei , is call respect??? sometime i hide myself is not becuase i lazy... but because of this so called elder people... for example... that day ... i go to next door... i not yet go in the house and sit.. my aunt call me to bring things to next door... when i go next door, another ask me to bring back to next door... or like my mom , when go upstair halfway, ask me to bring the phone up for her, and when bring up , she ask me to charge for her.... if it is because of someone lazyness and called other people to do , other people have to follow because  this is call "respect "??????

that one of the reason why i don't like to go back home,if it is common housework , i will gladly do.... but if it is from some one lazyness and ask me to do , which is quiet frequent happen... i really HATE it....